Relationship - Trust & Commitment Will Do Good

TRUST & COMMITMENT WILL DO GOOD

“Love cannot live without trust and commitment”. Believe me, trust is the gum that binds two people together for the long run whereas commitment ensures security in trusting a person. Each & every person on this earth has a different opinion about trust, especially when it comes to love. We always wonder, “Should I trust this person?” or “Should I hold back”. The key point is that in a relationship, holding back trust won’t keep the attachment & spark between two people for long. A happy relationship isn't at all possible without trust and commitment. 

Hard to believe? Keep reading.

THOSE LITTLE MOMENTS....!

In love, with every passing moment, people either built a bridge across hearts or a wall for each other. Trust is built brick by brick, it is earned slowly. The early risk of pouring our hearts out with a new person can be inadequate and frigid which allows us to observe how that person responds. If they turn out to be trustworthy we share more of our feelings and emotions with them, and that's exactly how trust builds between two people. Because building trust in a relationship needs two trustworthy individuals.

Some of these tiny, little moments can bring more spark to the relationship, along with that it'll also help to build more trust and be 100% committed:

• Become BFF's first

• Doing teamwork : "Hey, will you take care of the laundry?"

• Asking questions : "What are your opinions about this outfit?"

• Sharing events involving stressful events

• Solving problems together, avoid having conflicts on little things

• Asking out on dates

• Emotional Support : "Everything's gonna be fine, we're into this together"

• Show affection to your partner, it can be verbal or physical.

• Small gestures : "Here's a cold glass of water for you, tell me how was your day?"

• Be compatible, allow your partner to share anything & everything

• Plan surprise : trips or gifts or chocolates or flowers or anything. Be it, men or women, trust me everybody loves to get pampered.

• Forgive more, Punish less. This is the golden rule.

HEAVEN IT CAN BE...!    

The couples who have built trust in their relationship have very different kinds of conflicting conversations as compared to the couples who struggle to trust one another. Let's see how blissful it can be to have a relationship, which can be heaven when two people invest 100% emotions into it.

• The relationship becomes a safe paradise to regain emotional stability, reduce stress or anxieties, or fears.

• Your partner will have your back no matter what.

• Willingness to acknowledge personal flaws

• Having the courage to explore new things and take risks, because if something doesn't go well, your partner will be there for you

• More curious about the world in order to gain knowledge which might change your beliefs & ideas about anything new

• You'll have someone who would hear longings beneath your anger.

• You'll have a person to share all your emotions with, whether it be happiness or sadness or anger or anything. 

• You can rely on your lover as a secure base to enhance personal growth.

SMALL STEPS CAN BUILT TRUST AND COMMITMENT

• Work on Conflicts Patiently - Understand each other before you try to resolve issues. The process of trust-building requires love & collaboration mode. Once you do this you both understand each other well and try to fix problems together.

• Heal Past Emotional Wounds - During a fight, couples most likely brings up the topics when they felt betrayed and broken. Fix that first, everything will fall in place later or sooner.

• Blending In - It means you should have the ability to delight in your partner's joys and success and feel disturbed when they are going through a bad phase. This will make the bond stronger.

• Emotional Availability - Being open to your partner about insecurities. Learn to work with your emotions. 

• Take The Ownership - Accepting mistakes when found guilty and apologize to make things right.

• Be The Secret Keeper - Try not to bring up things that your partner has shared with you like their griefs and mistakes, against them when you're upset. 

• Help Each Other - A trustworthy relationship demands expressing wants and needs with the partners. This helps to strengthen the relationship.

Now, I think I've made it crystal clear that a happy and ever-lasting relationship's foundation is trust & commitment. Most of us need to learn how it looks like and how to implement it in our relationship. Being in love can be the most beautiful feeling in this whole world but we sometimes mess it up. Try to inculcate everything mentioned above to live & enjoy a healthy and beautiful relationship. 

Happy Reading.!

With Love,

Shikha Pathak